I have a Grade School Girl-like Crush on. . .

David Hyde Pierce

Although I had not seen one episode of Frazier despite all the years it was on and winning awards, I decided to go to see the new Broadway play, CURTAINS in previews last April and immediately fell in love with David Hyde Pierce. He just has a darling style about him that is immediately hypnotic--at least for me.

So when my darling son came to visit in May-I took him to the show and then last Wednesday night, I bought a premium house ticket and sat in the third row to see the show again. This is the first time I have seen the show since David won the Tony--and sitting up so close to the stage, I really got a great look at his overall acting. I was thrilled when he won the Tony as of course I have a grade-school girl-like crush on him. But Wednesday night I saw what the Tony reviewers saw--David is completely engaged the ENTIRE time during the show--its remarkable. He is more than a terrific actor--he exudes the role.

DAVID HYDE PIERCE THRILLED TO MEET NEW FRIEND
Completely in line with my grade school girl-like crush on him, I waited at the stage door for him to come out and sign autographs. Wednesday night is never a big FAN night, so I was one of about 5 people who waited and waited and waited for him. It was worth it---and he even talked to me for a few minutes--about nothing!!! How fun is New York City??? I got the sense from him that meeting me was right up there with his Oscars and his Tony. (Hey, this is my blog and I can tell the story my way!!)

HIS IMDB BIO
David was born on 3 April 1959 in Saratoga Springs, New York, USA. He is the youngest child of George and Laura Pierce (both deceased) and has two older sisters (Barbara and Nancy) and an older brother (Thomas). As a child he was very interested in music (particularly piano) and regularly played the organ at his local church (Bethesda Episcopal Church). David discovered a love of drama in high school and, upon his graduation in 1977, he received the Yaddo Medal for best Dramatic Arts student. However, his love of music was still strong so he decided to study classical piano at Yale University. Unfortunately, he soon grew bored with music history lessons and found that he wasn't dedicated enough to practice the required amount of hours to become a successful concert pianist. Instead, he returned to his love of drama and graduated in 1981 with a double major in English and Theatre Arts. He then moved to New York where he worked several menial jobs (including selling ties at Bloomingdales and working as a security guard) while acting in the theater during the late 80s and early 90s. He appeared in small roles in films such as "Bright Lights Big City" (1988) before his life and career changed forever when he landed the role of Dr. Niles Crane in the television series "Frasier" (1993). Throughout the show's eleven year run (1993-2004), David was nominated for an Emmy Award for Best Supporting Actor each year (he won four times: 1995, 1998, 1999 and 2004). David resides in Los Angeles with his romantic partner, Brian Hargrove, and their two Wheaton Terriers, Emma and Mabel. He remains very close to his three siblings.

So there you have it. David Hyde Pierce, his Oscars, his Tony and me.


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How I spent my summer vacation

Since this was always the first writing assignment of the new school year back when I was in grade school, I decided it was the perfect way to start this new blog.



GETTING SUMMER STARTED
I am a Nurse Practitioner. Just before Memorial Day I took leave of my job of the past two years as VP, Strategic Planning for a communications agency in New York City. With leaving this job, I also left a daily train commute to the city from New Jersey--lunches at great restaurants, Chinese food lunches with my friend and cube neighbor, Joan, and just the wonderful atmosphere of life in NYC.

My career path of the past 10 years has been pharmaceutical marketing communications--what that really means is that I worked in marketing agencies that focused on the pharma industry. I have had some great experiences, participated in some greatly needed drugs coming to market to help people with poor health become well, and met some very smart and caring medical professionals around the world. In that respect, my agency-based career has had its inspiring, unforgettable days.

But the uncertainty of agency life is something I had to re-think. The hire-up--and then fire-down with the ups and downs of billable hours is exhausting. Great teams can be decimated overnight and unfortunately that has been a frequent experience for anyone in the agency world. So, as many times as I have survived down-sizing, I have also been its victim. This was a victim year. So the re-thinking began.

RE-thinking is best done poolside and I spent a rather carefree summer with two big decisions: 1. trying to figure out a career move that would be bulletproof from downsizing and 2. how will I survive financially and mentally until I figured out #1.

One of my first poolside decisions satisfied #2-- I would not carry COBRA, but see firsthand what the "No Health Insurance" experience is all about (we are certainly hearing a lot about it in the political campaign platforms). It was a glorious summer break. I have not had a break of this duration since maternity leaves and it was nice.


NO HEALTH INSURANCE EXPERIENCE

Making this decision was serious--I had to take a complete body system inventory and figure out how to stay healthy.

Here is the health-wise prescription I wrote for myself:
--feed my brain with good books, good music and watching the Phil Spector trial.
--become a vegetarian to protect my digestive system from over-exertion--eating meat weakens the immune system
--exercise every day to get stronger and protect against injury from falls or muscle strain.
--plan an encounter with something beautiful everyday--to help me stay calm and happy--flowers, art, music, sunrises and sunsets, Broadway, etc.
--join an exercise class to meet other motivated active people--and I met several new friends who are just wonderful.
--spend lots of time with BERIT, my golden retriever, learn as much about her as possible and feel so lucky to have her with me everyday.

END OF SUMMER--RESULTS OF TIME WELL SPENT

I am stronger, healthier, happier, tanner and motivated for moving forward. The summer break really worked.

I have not been sick one day since leaving my job!!! My only problem is how to spend the $2,000 in my flexible spending account before December.

Here are some of my other plans:
--participate in the Danskin triathlon next September with my friend Diane and my aerobic instructor Carolyn
--finally take the trip to China in 2008 as member of a Women's Health Nurse Practitioner Exchange team
--take a real vacation
--read the new biography of FDR by Jean Edward Smith as my wintertime book
--make my new consulting company strikingly successful

Oh, did I mention that I started a new consulting company, The Grimes Group, LLC-and have a wonderful client in the healthcare field?

So just as I left my Nurse Practitioner practice in 1998, I now have left the agency world to become my own boss. Hence the name of this blog: Going Going Grimes
Already thinking what to buy myself for Boss's Day. :)


PREVIEW NEXT BLOG: I HAVE A GRADE-SCHOOL GIRL-SIZE CRUSH ON. . . . just wait til you see who the unsuspecting guy is!!